Why we fuck shit up.

Ok, I apologize for the foul language, but I needed a hook. Stating “fucked up shit” is more effective in trying to hook an audience than something pretentious and, ultimately, ignorance just sucks. I am guilty of both ‘crimes’. However, we’re still learning!

“Fucked up shit” can fall into one of these categories:

- Trusting people we shouldn’t.

- Allowing other people to lead us down a guilt trip; guilt over something warranted, and something insignificant? Well, they are different.

- Avoiding introspection because it feels bad. *

- Letting “controlled reactions” rule your life.

- Holding onto the past. You can’t change it, and many will say you can’t change your future. So accept and deal with it.

- We tend to expect others to “play our game”. If you want something from someone? Play their game, but don’t get lost in the process. Learn to play several different roles, work them to your advantage, if and when,  needed.

- Expecting WAY too much from others.  Most people are on auto-pilot, and they don’t intend to hurt/ confuse/ upset you. Most people are selfish; accept it and adapt, then decide if you want to remain part of that low-vibrational consciousness (because you do not have to).

- Learn, understand, and accept that NO ONE will save you from yourself. The “self” is imaginary, egocentric, and destructive. We aren’t “special” on an individual basis. We are special as a race of human beings.

- LOVE each other. Let go of grudges and expectations; look around you and try to feel/ see what your fellow human is experiencing. Try to see “love” as a universal right.